Finding the life partner is really a difficult process and when you finally found the lady for which you want to spend rest of your life then without giving a second chance just propose her, the world is going very fast and so do all peoples that’s why spending more time thinking can be a bad idea. You should push your nervousness aside and remember that, once you have a game plan and know what to expect, you’ll be able to propose to your girlfriend without blundering the whole thing. You don’t have to do anything too over-the-top or crazy, unless you think that’s what she wants. The best way to go about is just listen what your heart is saying and behave in a manner that would be remembered for the rest of your life. Girls need romance and a great sense of care to get assured that I am choosing the right person for life.
Never copy movies:
It’s a fake idea to copy from the movies; you can only copy when you are very much sure that you are able to produce the situation much better than that. And in the real world it’s not possible. Movies are commercial affair, the producer spend thousands of dollar to make those romantic proposing scenes to make movie the block buster. No one forget Tom cruise proposing her girl friend at the bottom of Eiffel tower and what about Seal’s proposal to Heidi Klum in the Canadian mountains, in an igloo? All it is romantic and very cute but it’s not possible for a common man to do that until he is living in Paris or on cold snowy mountains.
Just be open and show care:
The care and love has the power to melt hearts. Show you sincere heart feelings openly. There is no good in hiding your feelings and pretending to be non-romantic. It’s natural when you love someone you adore her and want to be with her. Tell her how much you love her, what you can do for her and how you think your life would be without her. But keep in mind never exaggerate because these fake promises before marriage gives you a very tough time after marriage.
Create some romantic environment:
Do something special to surprise her. Work out with candle and dime light. Make any place you like your proposing spot. Don’t worry about budget. It’s not necessary to go on a hill, book a full dining hall of a restaurant or decor a sea boat for her. You can make you house. You dining area or your lounge you’re proposing spot. It’s not only the matter of spending money but it’s about showing care. Make a dime light effect, light up candles, play soft music, flowers and collect some gifts; you also include cake in the list.
Here are a few ideas that how to tell her your wish:
- You can put the ring in her drink glass so that when she ends up she find it and then you can say her ‘ be mine forever” but be careful as a friend of mine proposed to his girlfriend by dropping the ring into her glass of red wine. She didn’t swallow it she thought it was a piece of bottle cap, so she spat it out with a splash and yelled at the manager. It took a few minutes for her flushed temper to calm down. But the proposal was memorable.
- Just take the help from romantic flower delivery service, give them the time and date at which you were supposed to propose her. Ask her to open the gate and pretend to be busy in something. When she will receive flowers on her name with some romantic lines, as soon as she returns to you just take out the ring, hold her warmly and whisper in her ear. ‘Will you be mine’ this romantic gesture will definitely melt her heart and she can’t to stop herself and say yes.
- Present her with flowers and place the ring in a box on the top of flowers and write a note “open it if you love me” her curiosity will pomp her to open and thus she will fall in love with you once again.